***While conducting a research, I stumbled upon some intriguing information that could help anyone prosper or find answers in a current or past relationship… (The excerpts between quotes are coming directly from the original manuscripts from 1928 of “The Laws of Success In Sixteen Lessons” by Napoleon Hill)
Sometimes we might believe there is not a clear explanation for certain things but history has proved that human beings are like computers which can be programmed and changed voluntarily or involuntarily based on their understanding or ignorance of the power of the mind. Napoleon Hill since 1928 gave a clear explanation of the power of “The Mastermind” and how the chemistry of the mind can change and become a benefit or affect a relationship between two people.
It has been well known that “The Mastermind Principle” is the phenomenon where two minds come together “en rapport” to create a third mind from where information is received and delivered to keep two individuals in a spirit of perfect harmony no matter the time or distance.
When two individuals come together and rapport is created, that means that the chemistry of each person has helped create a positive, attractive “Mastermind” since both were in the same frequency level. In this same way two individuals can get out of rapport and repel each other if the chemistry of the mind is changed because of “physical heredity plus the nature of thoughts, which have dominated that mind during a period of time”.
The chemistry of the mind of each individual in a relationship creates the perfect environment and functionality in which a relationship can prosper and work hand to hand based on the foundation on which the relationship has grown while the couple is in a state of rapport (in the same frequency level). When a relationship seems to go through unexpected challenges, this could be due to the individual’s philosophy and general habits of thought that suddenly changed because of lack of focus on what matters the most between the couple and therefore opening once mind to external ideas.
“This principle of mind chemistry, “The Mastermind”, is the basis and cause for practically all so-called “soul-mate” cases which unfortunately sometimes find their way into separation from the ignorance and misuse of this principle” (NH) Principle that if well known by the couple, could be controlled and directed for the perfect functionality of the relationship.
“It is believed by the author that the normal or natural condition of the chemistry of any individual mind is the result of his physical heredity plus the nature of thoughts which have dominated that mind.” (NH)
“Every mind is continuously changing to the extent that the individual’s philosophy and general habits of thought suddenly change the chemistry of his or her mind.” (NH)
An individual can direct this change if his or her focus is aligned with what the relationship wants instead of focusing on the ideas that doesn’t work to the advantage of the relationship. When focus is directed towards and idea for a period of time, a belief is created based on the facts that the individual is perceiving, but we have to consider that “What we believe tends to become fact since facts are nothing else that other people opinions”. Ask yourself, what do I believe to be true? “When the attitude is right the facts don’t count!”
“The entire civilized world knows that the first two or three years of association of a couple are often years of “adjustment”. If the couple goes through the different scenarios presented to them, it is more than apt to become a permanent alliance. (NH)
The challenge is to work things out together to the advantage of the relationship instead of being at effect and quit based on “facts”.
“This principles the author BELIEVES to be true…“
“That any individual may voluntarily change the chemistry of his or her mind so that it will either attract or repel all with whom it comes in contact is a KNOWN FACT!” “Stated in another manner, any person may assume a mental attitude which will attract and please others or repel and antagonize them, and this without the aid of words or facial expression or other form of bodily movement or demeanor.” (NH)
Without harnessing this knowledge, any of the individuals could be exposed to involuntary change because of the creation of a mastermind outside of the relationship in which ideas are being presented in a way that is not serving either the individual or the relationship.
“The moment two minds begin to take divergent roads of interest the individual units of each mind separate, and the third element, known as “The Master Mind”, which grew out of the friendly or harmonious alliance, will disintegrate“. (NH)
There are not two individuals in the world with the exact same interests and likes, always consider sharing your world, likes and dislikes with your partner to porously keep the harmonious spirit flowing!
“Two minds can be in PERFECT HARMONY once the two minds have been aroused and warmed as it were, with a spirit of perfect harmony of purpose” (NH)
For a couple to be and stay in perfect harmony there should be a common purpose, goal or objective that both are focusing on to keep “The Mastermind”. This doesn’t mean to change who the person is or their likes; it only means that a common purpose should exist to combine both minds. Both minds should be recharged by the constant communication and practice of focusing on the purpose together with trust.
“Unfortunately because of the ignorance and misuse of this information we sometimes only see the “effect” without understanding the “cause“. (NH) Thus separation or chaos happens without explanation or without a route to reconnect the relationship.
A relationship should be focused on the two individuals involved for the benefit of the cause. If ideas enter the space of the mind of an individual and are preserved during a period of time taking away the focus from the relationship, the chemistry of the mind of the individual could change creating a sudden change of attitude, principles and ideas.
Since the chemistry of the mind controls our emotions and mental state, a change in chemistry of the mind may cause emotional changes, incongruent ideas and the unconscious repel of the partner.
Unfortunately many relationships come to an end or are harmed by the ignorance and misuse of this powerful principle using as reason “something suddenly changed”.
Always consider as well that human beings are constantly evolving and the sudden change could be to the advantage of the two individuals, either together or separated. Don’t be attached, be committed and live happy!
Learn to harness the powers that do exist and understand the chemistry of the mind to properly use the natural tools you have at your disposal to keep and create what you want. Enjoy a healthy and happy life with your loved ones and never hurt without reason. Relatives and friends come and go, “THE ONE” could change it all for you, so stay in rapport preserving a powerful mastermind.
Practice Self Mastery and you will prosper at what you want!
“Believe and You Will Achieve, Doubt and Go Without” ~Kevin trudeau
==>>Points to remember…
- Always keep ideas and challenges inside the relationship and not with third parties. This could prevent the change in chemistry and philosophy in someone’s mind from the acceptance of outside sources.
- Physical heredity plus the nature of thoughts, which have dominated the mind through a period of time, could cause the change in chemistry in an individuals mind. (NH)
- Any person may assume a mental attitude that will attract and please others or repel and antagonize them.(NH) Self Mastery = Control of Your Mind. Your mind is your best asset or your worst enemy; it can change it all!
- Choose wisely what you focus on since “What You Focus on Expands”~Marshall Sylver.
- A simple misplaced idea in the mind for a period of time can change the chemistry of the mind causing emotional change, incongruent ideas and the unconscious repel of the partner.
- The state of perfect harmony can be obtained by discipline. Discipline described as the ability to focus on what someone wants long term in a relationship and make healthy choices based on that. Nothing has ever been accomplished without a definite purpose, persistence and discipline.
- Practice TOLERANCE! Intolerance makes enemies of those who should be friends. It destroys opportunity and fills the mind with doubt, mistrust and prejudice. Intolerance closes the book of possible great stories and writes on the cover “Finish!”(NH)
Note: A fun and modern way to see this principle at work is by going and watching the movie “Stupid Crazy Love” with Steve Carell. There you will see how paradigms shift according to the mind state and the way rapport is created to change the mind chemistry of an individual.
Most of the people go through their lives without even considering how much every decision affects their day-to-day lives.
Should I continue on this job, should I go to college, should I study this career, should I get married, should I join the team, should I make this deal, etc.
Every single moment in our lives, we are presented with the enormous power to make our own choices but sometimes we don’t even realize how one decision could make all of our lives better or worst.
Since I started studying human behavior and success principles I noticed that people who make the wrong choices make them because they don’t really know what they really want in their lives. They just walk along the path of life wondering when is something great going to happen to them.
All of these people think that the universe has the control and they just have to enjoy the ride no matter what is like and forget the huge principle of “Free Will”.
From the moment we are born we are given one of the greatest blessing of all, the power to decide. We have the ability to dictate our own results based on the decisions we make. First we need to be really clear about what we want to accomplish in our lives and set our vision and dream as a goal.
Based on that list of goals we created, we have to chunk them down to a point in which we know we can give the first step and take action now!!!!
For example, if our goal is to study certain career at a certain university at a certain time. We could have the vision, the big picture of that precious moment, but to start moving into that direction we have to decide to take the first step now before we loose track.
You can start doing it by getting useful information, network with current students, professors or graduates in person or online, write down the requirements to apply, start working on those requirements and if you want to go even further, start researching and deciding the opportunities you will have and how you want them to be when you graduate.
These actions will move you forward to your dream and your dream will pull you towards him through the energy of the universe. This is proven science because once we have a goal and we decide to pursue it, our brain works as an internal GPS to accomplish it.
If our goal is clear enough our brain won’t see black or white, up or down, on or off, if not that it will only see the right road towards success.
This is the importance of making decisions, when we are not aware of our power to decide or don’t know what we truly want, then is when circumstances or people are in charge of our lives, and then we complain “why things are like these in my life?”
When things go wrong, just remember you were the one who decided to take that road and you are the one who can change it again. Successful people may have many strategies to accomplish what they want but they only have plan “A” and that is their only option, success at whatever they desire the most.
Take the steering wheel of your life, be the captain of your own ship and only look where your compass directs you.
I truly believe every human being has the potential to decide their own future and therefore accomplish whatever they desire. As Napoleon Hill Said, “Circumstances, I make them”.
To Your Eternal Success,